Posted: January 18, 2019
10 TIPS FOR TIDYING UP YOUR DATING LIFE:
- Write at least 10 qualities of your ideal mate including their race, age, status, educational background, finances, height, weight, etc.
- Narrow it down to three qualities - that's your top 3 priorities. You will date someone who has your top 3 and you will not date someone who does not have your top 3 priorities.
- Deal Breakers - write down your 3 deal breakers (no more than 5).
- Go on dates with people who have your top 3 priorities and none of your deal breakers.
- Show up.
- Say your truth - your relationship goal.
- Be authentic - ask the other person why are they on a date with you. Are they looking for a hookup or a relationship?
- Don't attach yourself to the outcome - you show up and be yourself and if the other person doesn't like you, it's okay. Its good to know right away so you can move on.
- If there is chemistry and you feel like kissing or touching - go for it.
- When it comes to sex, ask yourself, "Is this someone I can have a relationship with?". If the answer is no, don't have sex. If the answer is yes, wait for the second date. You don't want to regret it in the morning.